Couples usually argue about money, and not seeing eye to eye on future plans. But in my experience, the thing that really creates lasting resentment is when there’s no give-and-take around chores.
When it comes to chores, it really comes down to fairness and feeling appreciated. Instead of just falling into routines or doing things because that’s how it’s always been, couples need to talk openly about who’s handling what, and the reasons behind it.
Finding a system that works for both whether that means dividing tasks equally or leaning into each other’s strengths can really help prevent resentment. And don’t underestimate the power of a simple thank you; showing appreciation, even for the small stuff, goes a long way in keeping respect and teamwork alive.
Chores might seem like small fights at first, but they usually go deeper, touching on fairness, respect, and who’s carrying the emotional load. When one person feels like they’re doing more than their share, it can quietly build resentment, and before you know it, you’re stuck in the same arguments over who’s really pulling their weight at home.
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