There’s a quiet ache that comes from not being someone’s first choice an unspoken wound that can settle deep in the soul. Whether in love, friendship, or opportunity, being placed second can make you question your value, your beauty, your enough-ness.
But this is not the end of the story it’s the beginning of a new one.
This journey is about more than recovery; it’s about rediscovery. It’s learning to affirm your worth in your own voice. It’s about rebuilding the foundation of self-esteem not on how others rank you, but on how deeply you learn to value yourself.
Along the way, resilience grows not from hardening, but from softening into self-compassion. From understanding that being passed over does not mean you are less, only that someone else failed to see what you carry.
This is your invitation to rise not for validation, but for liberation.
The Sacred Shift | Intuitive Guidance With Suzette Lindo 