So, I commented on a post that claimed women who are sexually appealing are more likely to keep a man as long as their performance in the bedroom is top-tier. That statement got me thinking. Society has set the tone for this kind of belief, and many women are now trapped in it without even realizing it.
In a world obsessed with aesthetics, it’s no surprise that so many women grow up believing their value lies in how they look. From the time we’re little girls, we’re taught both directly and indirectly that beauty opens doors: to attention, opportunity, and even love.
But here’s the truth, when your self-worth depends on something as fleeting as physical appearance, it becomes a fragile foundation. Because looks fade, trends change, and attention shifts. And when that happens, what’s left?
Some women begin to feel invisible the moment the compliments stop. Others start overcompensating trying harder, spending more, revealing more, all in an effort to regain the validation they’ve been conditioned to chase. It’s a vicious cycle that feeds insecurity and robs women of peace.
Yes, beauty has its power, but it should never become your prison. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel attractive or confident in your appearance the problem comes when your identity is built around being desired instead of being valued.
Because truthfully, the kind of man worth keeping isn’t just drawn to how you look, but who you are your character, your energy, your growth, and your peace. Physical attraction might spark interest, but emotional depth is what sustains connection.
So, take pride in your appearance, but remember your beauty is an accessory, not your identity. Your real power lies in your confidence, your emotional intelligence, your compassion, and your ability to evolve. Those are the things that make you unforgettable long after physical beauty fades.
Let the world chase what’s shiny; you focus on what’s solid. When you know your worth, you stop auditioning for love and start attracting people who recognize your value beyond the surface.
The Sacred Shift | Intuitive Guidance With Suzette Lindo 