Author: Suzette Lindo
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Why am I so lonely in my marriage?
https://open.substack.com/pub/jussuzie/p/todays-q-and-a-why-am-i-so-lonely?r=61fylh&utm_medium=ios
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What is sympathy and what is empathy?
I’ve seen quotes circulating that Charlie Kirk said sympathy is a better word to use than empathy. If that’s true, it’s important to note they aren’t the same thing. I think a lot of folks don’t understand the difference between Sympathy and empathy. And, why one is more powerful than the other. To me, sympathy…
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Your opinion is yours but your ideas can ripple farther than you think.
Opinions are personal beliefs or judgments, like preferring chocolate over vanilla ice cream. They’re flexible, subjective, and can change easily. Ideologies, on the other hand, are structured systems of ideas that shape how people view the world. They guide behavior, influence decisions, and are often shared by groups. While ideologies can inspire positive action, they…
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Does a high body count shame women more than men?
While a high body count doesn’t carry the same social stigma for men, it can impact their emotional health, especially if they became sexually active at an early age or grew up in a sexually charged environment. Some men use sex as a coping mechanism or as a way to feel connected to women, and…
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Q&A: Is long-term commitment about constant passion, or about choosing each other even when passion fades?
Answer- Passion is only one part, that’s the physical attraction, the flirting, the affection, the chemistry that makes you want to be close. It usually shows up fast and strong, but here’s the catch, passion can also fade quickly. When it does, it sometimes feels like withdrawal, irritability, sadness, or even that “something’s missing” feeling.…
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The Triangular Theory of Love: Which Type Are You In?
When most people hear the phrase love triangle, they think drama, like one person caught between two lovers. But in psychology, the idea of a love triangle means something totally different. Psychologist Robert Sternberg came up with a theory that love has three key ingredients: Commitment – the decision to stick with someone Intimacy –…
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Q&A: Why do men only like to chase, but lose interest once they’ve already gotten what they want?
Men are naturally wired as hunters. If you look at the animal kingdom, you’ll notice that when a predator catches its prey, it doesn’t always consume it entirely. Sometimes, it walks away, leaving the remains for other animals to finish. Why? Because the prey didn’t fully satisfy what it needed. The same concept often applies…