Author: Suzette Lindo
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Life experiences continuously shapes us.
Many people judge their potential by how they performed in school, even long after those years have passed. But life experience continuously shapes us, opening the door to new skills and perspectives. It doesn’t make sense to believe our creativity stays fixed over time. That’s the wonderful part no matter our age, we can still…
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Wednesdays Q&A: He Says He Loves Me, But Won’t Commit — What Does That Mean?
What is the meaning if my boyfriend saying this “I am just looking at the reality of life, we are never going to get married. That doesn’t mean I don’t love you, but it does mean that we can’t be together anymore” https://open.substack.com/pub/jussuzie/p/wednesdays-q-and-a-he-says-he-love?r=61fylh&utm_medium=ios
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Mondays Q&A: What are some qualities that intelligent and independent women look for in a partner.
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Trust Isn’t Given, It’s Earned.
Lately, I’ve seen a lot of questions about trust, which tells me we need to talk about it. Even if you’ve been hurt or betrayed, learning to trust again is essential. Rebuilding trust starts with understanding why it was broken in the first place people often test limits when they think they can get away…
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Can emotional connection replace physical attraction.
The question was asked, can a mental and emotional connection replace physical attraction? Here’s my view physical attraction is often the first thing both men and women notice, and it can create strong chemistry that sparks most relationships. However, this same chemistry is often why relationships eventually end, because without building intimacy through open communication,…
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Why men feel unlovable
Many men today feel like they’re chasing an ever-moving target in love. The rules keep changing, the expectations stack higher, and the finish line?Nowhere in sight. It’s time to rewrite the script. Let’s stop measuring men by outdated metrics of strength, wealth, and charisma and start valuing authenticity, emotional depth, and shared values. Men shouldn’t…
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Rebuilding self-worth after being chosen second.
There’s a quiet ache that comes from not being someone’s first choice an unspoken wound that can settle deep in the soul. Whether in love, friendship, or opportunity, being placed second can make you question your value, your beauty, your enough-ness. But this is not the end of the story it’s the beginning of a…
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The Other Face of Narcissism
I’ve recently become aware of what a narcissistic personality truly looks like, distinguishing it from the way the term is often casually used online. Ive observed that these individuals often present themselves as helpful and generous, always willing to help. They can be the nicest people in the world. However, the moment they feel hurt,…
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Soulmates Aren’t Found, They’re Felt
I’ve been seeing a lot of posts lately asking, “When will I meet my soulmate?” or “How will I know it’s them?” Here’s my take: your soul already knows when it’s time to connect. The one who aligns with your soul will appear naturally you won’t need to search. But here’s the catch, your soul…