Tag: boundaries
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Your Monday morning fix: The hardest thing you will ever face.
The hardest thing you will ever face, is getting to know yourself. When you close yourself off, you undermine yourself, you won’t know who you really are and what you are capable of.
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When you give up your independence or freedom to please them you undermine yourself.
It is a mistake to reduce yourself to an object of desire for someone. Understanding the difference between pleasure and suffering can aid you in letting go. Work on creating a nurturing home inside yourself, independent of external people and forces. You grow around your experiences. They become part of you. You can harden or…
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Your morning fix-Having mental fortitude.
“Having mental fortitude means pushing yourself just a little bit farther. It is learning that you don’t have to say “yes” to everything. Sometimes, even though it sounds harsh, “no” is the right answer. It is learning to be honest, even when it’s difficult to express it out loud. It is learning how to use…
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People pleasing is a waste of time, people that claim to know it all will always find fault no matter what you do.
Perfect, far from being perfect. I am not here for validation or even likes, those are things that I give to myself, anything outside of that is extra toppings😁I don’t sit at anyone’s table but my own, because I like what i serve, therefore I don’t owe, or give any explanation for what I do.…
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When basic needs aren’t met Humans can’t evolve.
To evolve as humans, Maslow’s 5th and last is SELF-ACTUALIZATION “morality, creativity, spontaneity, acceptance, experience purpose, meaning and inner potential” Now think about the world and why people behave the way they do and the cause for Relationship issues, poverty, crime. When one’s basic needs are met one can evolve. I understand human behavior.
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How online dating can lead to Fatuous love.
People look for friendship and potential marriage partners when it comes to online dating. However, people’s perceptions of what constitutes a good relationship have changed over time. Scenario on a 48 year old woman looking for love online: Her profile Mary is a 48-year-old single woman with a 9-year-old daughter. She has been single for…
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Your Sunday Morning Fix: Know what’s real or fake before you attach yourself to it.
Remember, when you allow the outside world into your life, everything you see, read and every conversation you have becomes a part of your learning process, so therefore you must decipher what’s true or fiction, what’s real or fake before you attach yourself to it.
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Your Friday Morning Fix: Focus on you
When you realize that your life isn’t centered around impressing others, this frees up your energy to focus on things, and people that really make a difference in your life.