Tag: change
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When You Stop Proving, Authority Changes Shape
The moment you stop trying to prove your value, something important happens. The wrong audience falls away. The right audience feels safer. Your authority becomes quieter, but stronger. This is not a loss. It’s refinement. I am not a motivational speaker. I am a translator of human behavior. That role doesn’t require aesthetics, performance, or…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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MY DREAM LAST NIGHT GAVE ME A MESSAGE I DIDN’T KNOW I NEEDED.
I want to share this because some of you might be going through the same type of spiritual transition. Last night, I had a strange dream. I dreamt I had a body to bury. I didn’t know who it was. I had a coffin, drove to a cemetery, found an open grave, and dropped it…
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Why Men Should Wait: Understanding Women Before 25
The Psychological and Biological Reasons Young Women Aren’t Ready for Long-Term Commitment. We often label someone “grown” at 18, hand them adult responsibilities, and expect mature decisions in love, career, and identity. But psychology tells a different story. The period from 18 to 25 is not full adulthood it is a distinct developmental stage called…
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Life experiences continuously shapes us.
Many people judge their potential by how they performed in school, even long after those years have passed. But life experience continuously shapes us, opening the door to new skills and perspectives. It doesn’t make sense to believe our creativity stays fixed over time. That’s the wonderful part no matter our age, we can still…
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The Fruits of My Silence.
Here are four short and soulful voice note scripts, each under 90 seconds “The Fruit of My Silence” a moment of truth whispered from one soul to another. https://suzettelindo.gumroad.com/l/dhnxeu
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Sometimes being lost in the dark is part of the journey.
Sometimes being lost in the dark is part of the journey. Maybe your routines have become too familiar, too rigid holding you in a cycle that no longer feels alive. This darkness, though uncomfortable, isn’t here to punish you. It’s making space. In the quiet and the unknown, a new vision is forming one that…
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Leading from Within: When Intuition Speaks Louder than Strategy.
Over the last several months, I’ve been leaning heavily on logic analyzing, planning, trying to think my way through everything. I told myself it was the responsible thing to do. That being rational, grounded, and methodical was what this season of my life required. So I quieted my intuition. I brushed off those gut feelings,…
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Structure vs. Authenticity
Lately, I’ve been thinking about the tension between structure and authenticity how one can support the other, but also how easily structure can get in the way of my true expression. There’s comfort in structure. It gives me a plan, a rhythm, a sense of direction. When I’m overwhelmed or unsure where to start, having…
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How spirituality can help men through midlife crisis.
You know, midlife can feel like you’re stuck between two worlds. You’re not the young guy you used to be, but you’re not exactly ready to slow down either. And for a lot of men, that in-between space can feel really confusing even painful. But here’s the thing most people don’t talk about: spirituality can…