Tag: children
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Marriage Is a Practice, Not a Promise
Speaking from firsthand experience, I went into marriage believing, like most people do, that love alone would be enough to make it last. You don’t walk down the aisle planning for divorce. You expect the commitment to carry itself simply because vows were exchanged. But marriage doesn’t survive on intention alone; it survives on effort.…
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We Learned Love the Wrong Way: The Hidden Cost of Generational Conditioning.
I was inspired to write this post after seeing a comment online that said, Trad wives have made it easy for men to stay mediocre. We often talk about “healing” and “breaking cycles,” but what does that really mean? For many of us, both men and women it means waking up one day and realizing…
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The Relationship Blueprint: How to Build a Marriage That Lasts.
Most people go into marriage with love, hope and no plan. This blueprint is based on psychological research and real-life relationship phases. It walks you through what actually happens after the wedding, and how to prepare for it — emotionally, mentally, and practically. https://substack.com/@jussuzie/note/c-136219050?r=61fylh&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action
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How Stability Shapes Confidence.
Stability… it’s one of those things you don’t always notice until it’s gone. I grew up in a safe environment. There was structure. Predictability. It gave me a baseline of confidence a sense that the world was manageable. That I could trust it and trust myself. But when that environment became unstable, everything changed. Suddenly,…
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What it means to be a father.
Specifically, there is no psychological evidence to suggest that not having a father in the home has an impact on a child’s development negatively. But a mother’s absence does.Research does shows: The more fathers are involved in the routine activities of their children, the more likely the children will have fewer behavior problems, and be…
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The Rationality of a Woman: Modern vs. Traditional
The conversation about the distinctions between modern and traditional women seems to be dominated by men. Men of today assert that modern women lack traditional values. I was born in the 1970s and reared in a single-family home. I lived with my grandparents for the first six years of my life. Now, even if women…
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Fostering a child’s emotional well-being along with academics will make them more productive.

I had the chance to share my opinions as a parent and former board member at a charter school recertification yesterday. One of my children, out of three still attending. The state funds the school, so officials were interested in learning what parents thought of it. The primary factor, in my opinion, that made the…
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How do we learn-Identifying multiple intelligences.

With his hypothesis of Multiple Intelligences, Howard Gardner, a Harvard University professor, revolutionized people’s perceptions of intellect and learning in 1983. Gardner believes that everyone possesses at least eight intelligences, and that some of these intelligences have been developed more fully than others. He defines intelligence as “an ability to solve problems or fashion products…