Tag: conflict
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Marriage Is a Practice, Not a Promise
Speaking from firsthand experience, I went into marriage believing, like most people do, that love alone would be enough to make it last. You don’t walk down the aisle planning for divorce. You expect the commitment to carry itself simply because vows were exchanged. But marriage doesn’t survive on intention alone; it survives on effort.…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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Part one. Why Spiritually Open Men Attract Chaotic Women: Understanding Energetic Porosity.
Some men are spiritually gifted without ever realizing it. They feel deeply, absorb energy easily, and carry a natural sensitivity that most people don’t possess. But here’s the hidden truth: When a man is spiritually open but not energetically protected, he becomes a magnet for the wounded, the chaotic, and the unhealed. He’s simply open…
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We Learned Love the Wrong Way: The Hidden Cost of Generational Conditioning.
I was inspired to write this post after seeing a comment online that said, Trad wives have made it easy for men to stay mediocre. We often talk about “healing” and “breaking cycles,” but what does that really mean? For many of us, both men and women it means waking up one day and realizing…
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Why Men Should Wait: Understanding Women Before 25
The Psychological and Biological Reasons Young Women Aren’t Ready for Long-Term Commitment. We often label someone “grown” at 18, hand them adult responsibilities, and expect mature decisions in love, career, and identity. But psychology tells a different story. The period from 18 to 25 is not full adulthood it is a distinct developmental stage called…
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The Relationship Blueprint: How to Build a Marriage That Lasts.
Most people go into marriage with love, hope and no plan. This blueprint is based on psychological research and real-life relationship phases. It walks you through what actually happens after the wedding, and how to prepare for it — emotionally, mentally, and practically. https://substack.com/@jussuzie/note/c-136219050?r=61fylh&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action
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How to Regain Respect in a Relationship.
I came across a comment online that posed an interesting question: How do you regain respect once it’s been lost? But what really stood out to me was the original post behind it. It wasn’t just about regaining respect it was about identifying the first and most essential foundation in a relationship. Surprisingly, it argued…
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Sometimes being lost in the dark is part of the journey.
Sometimes being lost in the dark is part of the journey. Maybe your routines have become too familiar, too rigid holding you in a cycle that no longer feels alive. This darkness, though uncomfortable, isn’t here to punish you. It’s making space. In the quiet and the unknown, a new vision is forming one that…
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Leading from Within: When Intuition Speaks Louder than Strategy.
Over the last several months, I’ve been leaning heavily on logic analyzing, planning, trying to think my way through everything. I told myself it was the responsible thing to do. That being rational, grounded, and methodical was what this season of my life required. So I quieted my intuition. I brushed off those gut feelings,…
The Sacred Shift | Intuitive Guidance With Suzette Lindo 