Tag: dating
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Say It Like You Mean It
I created this journal because I know what it feels like to be in love and still feel unseen…To shut down during conflict.To say “I’m fine” when you’re not.To feel like you’re either too much or not enough. Before You Walk Away, Try This… If the way you talk to each other feels off…If silence…
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Vibe Check or Red Flag? How to Vet a Date Before Catching Feelings.
open.spotify.com/episode/1zuXWmPC9fJP5UKMg5hwp6 Testing resilience might look like seeing how someone handles conflict, long-distance, emotional vulnerability, or boundaries—not to manipulate them, but to understand their capacity to stay grounded and grow through challenges.
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Why a Woman Shouldn’t Be a Man’s Source of Inspiration.
In a recent podcast episode, I explored a concept that often goes unspoken: a woman should never be the source of a man’s inspiration. And here’s why. I shared two key reasons. First, when a man draws his drive and ambition solely from a woman, that energy is often temporary. The moment he no longer…
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When sex becomes currency, not connection.
Often, when we find ourselves in the heat of an argument frustrated, unheard, or emotionally cornered we may instinctively reach for whatever tools we believe will help us win, be understood, or regain a sense of control. And one of the most common but rarely acknowledged behaviors in these moments is manipulation. Most of us…
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When She Checks Out: How Space, Support, and Understanding Can Save Your Relationship.
Let’s talk about why women might start to check out and what you can do about it. Often, when a woman begins to withdraw, you’ll notice a couple of things: the physical intimacy takes a hit and the usual upkeep at home starts to slip. It’s easy to jump to conclusions many men might assume…
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UNTYING THE KNOT: NAVIGATING THE COMPLEXITIES OF DIVORCE WITH PEACE AND RESPECT
It’s so common to think that love should just flow effortlessly, like something out of a movie. But real relationships don’t just sustain themselves on chemistry alone. Sure, that initial spark is exciting and can feel like fate, but keeping a connection strong over time is a totally different game. It takes two people choosing…
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How Ambition Imposed by Women Can Breed Male Resentment.
Women need to recognize that a man’s potential unfolds on his own timeline, not according to someone else’s expectations. If he isn’t at the stage you hope for or ready to meet you where you are, it’s often healthier to step back and move on. He may very well be aware of what he wants…
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How Resentment Builds: The Overlooked Issues in Relationships.
Couples usually argue about money, and not seeing eye to eye on future plans. But in my experience, the thing that really creates lasting resentment is when there’s no give-and-take around chores. When it comes to chores, it really comes down to fairness and feeling appreciated. Instead of just falling into routines or doing things…
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Your Tuesday morning fix: Love without shared values, a recipe for conflict.
Just because someone says they love you doesn’t necessarily mean they share your values. Love can be based on emotion, attraction, or even habit, but values run deeper — they shape how a person lives, what they prioritize, and how they make decisions. Someone might genuinely care for you, but still hold beliefs or follow…