Tag: endings
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Breaking Up Without Breaking Down
Divorce hit me hard, financial stress, health challenges, and the overwhelming task of keeping my kids’ wellbeing at the center. But through it all, I discovered the power of emotional intelligence and practical strategies to stay calm, make fair decisions, and protect my family. Listen to today’s episode. Breaking up without breaking down https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Aio18DuHEAR2gozyr6FXs?si=uNgPWNxmSZGcpwr0DlsZcA If…
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I Survived Being Displaced for a Year. Here’s What It Taught Me About Resilience, Relationships, and Rebuilding.
What I learned. Resilience Is Quieter Than People Think Resilience isn’t loud motivation speeches or dramatic comebacks. It’s waking up when you don’t feel secure and still moving forward. It’s swallowing your pride and adjusting. It’s not posting every hardship. It’s surviving days no one claps for. Resilience is deeply private before it ever becomes…
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When Suffering Teaches and When It Traps
I recently came across a post that claimed suffering humbles men but makes women bitter. At first glance, it sounds unfair. But sitting with it longer, there’s a deeper conversation underneath the statement, one that’s less about gender and more about how suffering is processed and supported. Suffering can humble men because, often, hardship forces…
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At the End of the Road, What’s Left Is Choice
There’s a kind of knowing that only comes after you’ve stood on the edge a few times. Not metaphorically. Not dramatically. But in those quiet, disorienting moments where life and death feel less like opposites and more like roommates. “After shifting back and forth between life and death, at the end of the road, what’s…
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Why Life Felt Like a 15-Year Struggle And Why It’s Ending Now.
The End of a 15-Year Capricorn Cycle: What This Stellium Really Means On January 18, a rare six-planet stellium in Capricorn (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Pluto) marked the closure of a long cycle that has been unfolding since 2008–2009. For many people, this period represented intense lessons around responsibility, survival, authority, group dynamics,…
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Why Last Year Felt So Hard for Creatives and Why 2026 Is Your Comeback Year
If you’re a creative, last year may have felt like a storm hitting out of nowhere. Social media algorithms shifted, sales dipped, some of your projects stalled or worse, you felt burned out and uninspired. You weren’t imagining it. Numerology suggests that 2025 was a 9 Year, a year of endings, completion, and release. What…
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The Soulmate Myth No One Talks About
I recently wrote about how many women who have elevated themselves, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and even professionally, often find it difficult to meet men at the same level. Not because there’s something “wrong” with them, but because growth changes what feels aligned. When you outgrow certain dynamics, you also outgrow certain connections. After coming across…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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How Society Turns Women Against Women.
For generations, society has quietly and sometimes openly conditioned women to view one another as rivals instead of allies. It’s a divide-and-conquer strategy woven into our culture so deeply that many women don’t even realize they’ve been trained to compete for visibility, validation, and value. We grew up surrounded by messages that told us what…