Tag: endurance
-
When Suffering Teaches and When It Traps
I recently came across a post that claimed suffering humbles men but makes women bitter. At first glance, it sounds unfair. But sitting with it longer, there’s a deeper conversation underneath the statement, one that’s less about gender and more about how suffering is processed and supported. Suffering can humble men because, often, hardship forces…
-
I Thought I Was Starting Over. I Was Actually Leveling Up
For a long time, I looked at my projects as standalone things. Small ideas. Side efforts. Experiments that didn’t quite turn into what I thought they would. I used to label them as “didn’t go anywhere” or “never really took off.” But recently, something clicked. I realized those projects weren’t failures or dead ends at…
-
The Sexually Disciplined Man: Why Intimacy Is Responsibility, Not Gratification
In a world that treats sex as casual, transactional, or purely pleasurable, a sexually disciplined man is rare. And yet, his presence is transformative. After 14 years of celibacy, I’ve realized something profound: intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s energetic, emotional, and deeply shaping. It can open gifts, shift awareness, and alter the very rhythm of…
-
The Fruits of My Silence.
Here are four short and soulful voice note scripts, each under 90 seconds “The Fruit of My Silence” a moment of truth whispered from one soul to another. https://suzettelindo.gumroad.com/l/dhnxeu
-
Sometimes being lost in the dark is part of the journey.
Sometimes being lost in the dark is part of the journey. Maybe your routines have become too familiar, too rigid holding you in a cycle that no longer feels alive. This darkness, though uncomfortable, isn’t here to punish you. It’s making space. In the quiet and the unknown, a new vision is forming one that…
-
The Sacred Trade: Earthly Loss for Divine Gain
When you’re called to begin a spiritual journey, it often involves a process of shedding—releasing anything that has limited your growth or held you back. This could include material possessions, familiar routines, or even relationships that no longer align with your higher purpose. While these changes may feel like painful losses in the physical world,…
-
How spirituality can help men through midlife crisis.
You know, midlife can feel like you’re stuck between two worlds. You’re not the young guy you used to be, but you’re not exactly ready to slow down either. And for a lot of men, that in-between space can feel really confusing even painful. But here’s the thing most people don’t talk about: spirituality can…
-
Why Some Men Walk Away After 50—And What to Do Instead.
I was talking with my daughter recently, and she shared something that really stuck with me. One of her close friends is worried about her dad, who, coincidentally, is around the same age as I am. She said her friend opened up about how her father’s been struggling lately. He told her that he just…
-
UNTYING THE KNOT: NAVIGATING THE COMPLEXITIES OF DIVORCE WITH PEACE AND RESPECT
It’s so common to think that love should just flow effortlessly, like something out of a movie. But real relationships don’t just sustain themselves on chemistry alone. Sure, that initial spark is exciting and can feel like fate, but keeping a connection strong over time is a totally different game. It takes two people choosing…
-
How Ambition Imposed by Women Can Breed Male Resentment.
Women need to recognize that a man’s potential unfolds on his own timeline, not according to someone else’s expectations. If he isn’t at the stage you hope for or ready to meet you where you are, it’s often healthier to step back and move on. He may very well be aware of what he wants…