Tag: happiness
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Your Tuesday morning fix: “The moment we understand the heavens it becomes fate”
“The moment we understand the heavens it becomes fate” How does it relate to choices and mistakes. My thoughts, choice leads to outcome, and mistakes was the choice. The outcome is fate. The understanding part doesn’t change the outcome, even if we try to interfere. What triggers fate, “choice” But was it destined to happen?…
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When She Checks Out: How Space, Support, and Understanding Can Save Your Relationship.
Let’s talk about why women might start to check out and what you can do about it. Often, when a woman begins to withdraw, you’ll notice a couple of things: the physical intimacy takes a hit and the usual upkeep at home starts to slip. It’s easy to jump to conclusions many men might assume…
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UNTYING THE KNOT: NAVIGATING THE COMPLEXITIES OF DIVORCE WITH PEACE AND RESPECT
It’s so common to think that love should just flow effortlessly, like something out of a movie. But real relationships don’t just sustain themselves on chemistry alone. Sure, that initial spark is exciting and can feel like fate, but keeping a connection strong over time is a totally different game. It takes two people choosing…
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How Ambition Imposed by Women Can Breed Male Resentment.
Women need to recognize that a man’s potential unfolds on his own timeline, not according to someone else’s expectations. If he isn’t at the stage you hope for or ready to meet you where you are, it’s often healthier to step back and move on. He may very well be aware of what he wants…
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Real change is only possible through knowledge and compassion.
I recognize that real change is only possible through knowledge and compassion. Knowledge is important for compassion because it helps you better understand the experiences, struggles, and perspectives of others. Without knowledge, compassion can be shallow or misdirected, based on assumptions rather than reality. When you’re informed about different cultures, histories, and social issues, your…
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How Resentment Builds: The Overlooked Issues in Relationships.
Couples usually argue about money, and not seeing eye to eye on future plans. But in my experience, the thing that really creates lasting resentment is when there’s no give-and-take around chores. When it comes to chores, it really comes down to fairness and feeling appreciated. Instead of just falling into routines or doing things…
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Your Tuesday morning fix: Love without shared values, a recipe for conflict.
Just because someone says they love you doesn’t necessarily mean they share your values. Love can be based on emotion, attraction, or even habit, but values run deeper — they shape how a person lives, what they prioritize, and how they make decisions. Someone might genuinely care for you, but still hold beliefs or follow…
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Your Monday morning fix:Wisdom shows itself in the ability to question your assumptions.
Being wise means knowing when to rethink what you believe about life, question your assumptions, recognizing when to challenge your beliefs and then being open to change.
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Your Monday morning fix: Let people show their hands.
We live amongst opposing forces, a smart man uses them to his advantage, he knows when he should proceed or wait for others to show their hands. Learning how to maneuver is the key.
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How to become resilient and overcome your adversity.
I was recently asked about building resilience, and while there are countless books on the subject, I want to focus on one key factor that has helped me personally. But before diving into that, let’s first define resilience it’s the ability to cope with stress, adversity, and challenges. But how do you actually strengthen this…