Tag: love
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Marriage Is a Practice, Not a Promise
Speaking from firsthand experience, I went into marriage believing, like most people do, that love alone would be enough to make it last. You don’t walk down the aisle planning for divorce. You expect the commitment to carry itself simply because vows were exchanged. But marriage doesn’t survive on intention alone; it survives on effort.…
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The Sexually Disciplined Man: Why Intimacy Is Responsibility, Not Gratification
In a world that treats sex as casual, transactional, or purely pleasurable, a sexually disciplined man is rare. And yet, his presence is transformative. After 14 years of celibacy, I’ve realized something profound: intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s energetic, emotional, and deeply shaping. It can open gifts, shift awareness, and alter the very rhythm of…
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The Soulmate Myth No One Talks About
I recently wrote about how many women who have elevated themselves, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and even professionally, often find it difficult to meet men at the same level. Not because there’s something “wrong” with them, but because growth changes what feels aligned. When you outgrow certain dynamics, you also outgrow certain connections. After coming across…
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Why Some Black Men Struggle with Black Women Marrying Outside Their Race
With the second Williams sister getting married and, like her sister, choosing a partner outside her race, some black male influencers on social media are once again criticizing her choice. But the truth is this: a daughter’s first model of a man is her father. That early example often shapes what she recognizes, values, and…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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Falling in love is a beautiful thing: It’s one of the purest human experiences.
Many people never experience the shared joy of love, not because love never finds them, but because they’ve been taught to fear it, limit it, or judge it before it arrives. Cultural expectations, societal pressure, past hurt, and other people’s opinions can quietly close hearts that were once open. Some are told who they should…
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Why the First Deep Love Never Really Leaves a Man.
A post online claims that men fall in love only once and that every relationship afterward is a substitute for that original bond. When I saw this on my Instagram feed, curiosity led me into the comments. Some women said they didn’t care, as long as a man provides. Others admitted they’ve never truly been…
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How Society Turns Women Against Women.
For generations, society has quietly and sometimes openly conditioned women to view one another as rivals instead of allies. It’s a divide-and-conquer strategy woven into our culture so deeply that many women don’t even realize they’ve been trained to compete for visibility, validation, and value. We grew up surrounded by messages that told us what…
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Part one. Why Spiritually Open Men Attract Chaotic Women: Understanding Energetic Porosity.
Some men are spiritually gifted without ever realizing it. They feel deeply, absorb energy easily, and carry a natural sensitivity that most people don’t possess. But here’s the hidden truth: When a man is spiritually open but not energetically protected, he becomes a magnet for the wounded, the chaotic, and the unhealed. He’s simply open…
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New Podcast EP: 50 Cent Gets Real About Women. Beauty Isn’t What Keeps Him.
Aside from being attractive and independent, men appreciate women who can pour into the relationship emotionally, being honest, vulnerable, and true to themselves. It’s the kind of energy that creates a deeper, more meaningful connection. https://open.spotify.com/episode/03wGfOlZ2G8nhzTJkTFdKI?si=tTHhd_7iQUGIiq2RTaVmfg&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A4c01DGljgUz8YWnkZ90U89
The Sacred Shift | Intuitive Guidance With Suzette Lindo 