Tag: Men
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The Sexually Disciplined Man: Why Intimacy Is Responsibility, Not Gratification
In a world that treats sex as casual, transactional, or purely pleasurable, a sexually disciplined man is rare. And yet, his presence is transformative. After 14 years of celibacy, I’ve realized something profound: intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s energetic, emotional, and deeply shaping. It can open gifts, shift awareness, and alter the very rhythm of…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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Why the First Deep Love Never Really Leaves a Man.
A post online claims that men fall in love only once and that every relationship afterward is a substitute for that original bond. When I saw this on my Instagram feed, curiosity led me into the comments. Some women said they didn’t care, as long as a man provides. Others admitted they’ve never truly been…
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Why is sexual discipline often difficult for men?
Why is sexual discipline often difficult for men? There are several psychological and emotional factors that can contribute. For some, early childhood experiences of abandonment, such as being left or neglected by a mother, can create deep-seated feelings of insecurity. As a result, sex may become a way to assert dominance or regain a sense…
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Part one. Why Spiritually Open Men Attract Chaotic Women: Understanding Energetic Porosity.
Some men are spiritually gifted without ever realizing it. They feel deeply, absorb energy easily, and carry a natural sensitivity that most people don’t possess. But here’s the hidden truth: When a man is spiritually open but not energetically protected, he becomes a magnet for the wounded, the chaotic, and the unhealed. He’s simply open…
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We Learned Love the Wrong Way: The Hidden Cost of Generational Conditioning.
I was inspired to write this post after seeing a comment online that said, Trad wives have made it easy for men to stay mediocre. We often talk about “healing” and “breaking cycles,” but what does that really mean? For many of us, both men and women it means waking up one day and realizing…
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Why Men Should Wait: Understanding Women Before 25
The Psychological and Biological Reasons Young Women Aren’t Ready for Long-Term Commitment. We often label someone “grown” at 18, hand them adult responsibilities, and expect mature decisions in love, career, and identity. But psychology tells a different story. The period from 18 to 25 is not full adulthood it is a distinct developmental stage called…
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Why Men Value Looks More Than Success – And Why Women Shouldn’t Beat Themselves Up
In the dating world, it’s no secret that men often place a high value on physical attraction. But why is this the case? And why does it leave so many women feeling overlooked, unappreciated, or questioning their worth? The truth is that men can be surprisingly superficial. Many measure their own success not just by…
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Q&A: Why do men only like to chase, but lose interest once they’ve already gotten what they want?
Men are naturally wired as hunters. If you look at the animal kingdom, you’ll notice that when a predator catches its prey, it doesn’t always consume it entirely. Sometimes, it walks away, leaving the remains for other animals to finish. Why? Because the prey didn’t fully satisfy what it needed. The same concept often applies…
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Why men feel unlovable
Many men today feel like they’re chasing an ever-moving target in love. The rules keep changing, the expectations stack higher, and the finish line?Nowhere in sight. It’s time to rewrite the script. Let’s stop measuring men by outdated metrics of strength, wealth, and charisma and start valuing authenticity, emotional depth, and shared values. Men shouldn’t…
The Sacred Shift | Intuitive Guidance With Suzette Lindo 