Tag: relationships
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Q&A: Is long-term commitment about constant passion, or about choosing each other even when passion fades?
Answer- Passion is only one part, that’s the physical attraction, the flirting, the affection, the chemistry that makes you want to be close. It usually shows up fast and strong, but here’s the catch, passion can also fade quickly. When it does, it sometimes feels like withdrawal, irritability, sadness, or even that “something’s missing” feeling.…
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The Triangular Theory of Love: Which Type Are You In?
When most people hear the phrase love triangle, they think drama, like one person caught between two lovers. But in psychology, the idea of a love triangle means something totally different. Psychologist Robert Sternberg came up with a theory that love has three key ingredients: Commitment – the decision to stick with someone Intimacy –…
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Q&A: Why do men only like to chase, but lose interest once they’ve already gotten what they want?
Men are naturally wired as hunters. If you look at the animal kingdom, you’ll notice that when a predator catches its prey, it doesn’t always consume it entirely. Sometimes, it walks away, leaving the remains for other animals to finish. Why? Because the prey didn’t fully satisfy what it needed. The same concept often applies…
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Wednesdays Q&A: He Says He Loves Me, But Won’t Commit — What Does That Mean?
What is the meaning if my boyfriend saying this “I am just looking at the reality of life, we are never going to get married. That doesn’t mean I don’t love you, but it does mean that we can’t be together anymore” https://open.substack.com/pub/jussuzie/p/wednesdays-q-and-a-he-says-he-love?r=61fylh&utm_medium=ios
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Mondays Q&A: What are some qualities that intelligent and independent women look for in a partner.
https://substack.com/@jussuzie/note/p-171300963?r=61fylh&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action
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Trust Isn’t Given, It’s Earned.
Lately, I’ve seen a lot of questions about trust, which tells me we need to talk about it. Even if you’ve been hurt or betrayed, learning to trust again is essential. Rebuilding trust starts with understanding why it was broken in the first place people often test limits when they think they can get away…
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Can emotional connection replace physical attraction.
The question was asked, can a mental and emotional connection replace physical attraction? Here’s my view physical attraction is often the first thing both men and women notice, and it can create strong chemistry that sparks most relationships. However, this same chemistry is often why relationships eventually end, because without building intimacy through open communication,…