Tag: relationships
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When sex becomes currency, not connection.
Often, when we find ourselves in the heat of an argument frustrated, unheard, or emotionally cornered we may instinctively reach for whatever tools we believe will help us win, be understood, or regain a sense of control. And one of the most common but rarely acknowledged behaviors in these moments is manipulation. Most of us…
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When Affection Fades: Money Is Never Enough.
I’ve come to understand why so many relationships, including marriages, eventually come to an end. It’s often because we unknowingly base the value of those relationships on tangible things shared routines, financial stability, physical presence, or material gestures like gifts and vacations. These things, while meaningful, can fade or change with time. But true connection…
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Melinda Gates Said THIS Ended Her Marriage…
I Just finished reading an article about Melinda Gates and her new book, where she opens up about her divorce from Bill Gates. In it, she shares some deeply personal insights about what led to the end of their marriage. One of the key things she mentioned was the lack of honesty between them which…
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Why Some Men Walk Away After 50—And What to Do Instead.
I was talking with my daughter recently, and she shared something that really stuck with me. One of her close friends is worried about her dad, who, coincidentally, is around the same age as I am. She said her friend opened up about how her father’s been struggling lately. He told her that he just…
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Your Tuesday morning fix: “The moment we understand the heavens it becomes fate”
“The moment we understand the heavens it becomes fate” How does it relate to choices and mistakes. My thoughts, choice leads to outcome, and mistakes was the choice. The outcome is fate. The understanding part doesn’t change the outcome, even if we try to interfere. What triggers fate, “choice” But was it destined to happen?…
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When She Checks Out: How Space, Support, and Understanding Can Save Your Relationship.
Let’s talk about why women might start to check out and what you can do about it. Often, when a woman begins to withdraw, you’ll notice a couple of things: the physical intimacy takes a hit and the usual upkeep at home starts to slip. It’s easy to jump to conclusions many men might assume…
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UNTYING THE KNOT: NAVIGATING THE COMPLEXITIES OF DIVORCE WITH PEACE AND RESPECT
It’s so common to think that love should just flow effortlessly, like something out of a movie. But real relationships don’t just sustain themselves on chemistry alone. Sure, that initial spark is exciting and can feel like fate, but keeping a connection strong over time is a totally different game. It takes two people choosing…
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How Ambition Imposed by Women Can Breed Male Resentment.
Women need to recognize that a man’s potential unfolds on his own timeline, not according to someone else’s expectations. If he isn’t at the stage you hope for or ready to meet you where you are, it’s often healthier to step back and move on. He may very well be aware of what he wants…
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Real change is only possible through knowledge and compassion.
I recognize that real change is only possible through knowledge and compassion. Knowledge is important for compassion because it helps you better understand the experiences, struggles, and perspectives of others. Without knowledge, compassion can be shallow or misdirected, based on assumptions rather than reality. When you’re informed about different cultures, histories, and social issues, your…
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How Resentment Builds: The Overlooked Issues in Relationships.
Couples usually argue about money, and not seeing eye to eye on future plans. But in my experience, the thing that really creates lasting resentment is when there’s no give-and-take around chores. When it comes to chores, it really comes down to fairness and feeling appreciated. Instead of just falling into routines or doing things…
The Sacred Shift | Intuitive Guidance With Suzette Lindo 