Tag: self aware
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A Good Heart Changes More Lives Than a Good Brain Ever Could
Having a good heart is far more powerful than simply having a “good brain,” being smart, or highly educated. Intelligence can impress people, but a good heart moves them. When someone leads with empathy, compassion, and sincerity, they create safety, trust, and connection, things no degree or title can replace. A good heart listens instead…
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The Sexually Disciplined Man: Why Intimacy Is Responsibility, Not Gratification
In a world that treats sex as casual, transactional, or purely pleasurable, a sexually disciplined man is rare. And yet, his presence is transformative. After 14 years of celibacy, I’ve realized something profound: intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s energetic, emotional, and deeply shaping. It can open gifts, shift awareness, and alter the very rhythm of…
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The Quiet Role Empathy Plays in Right and Wrong
People with poor moral character often lack empathy. Empathy isn’t just being nice or feeling sorry for others, it’s the ability to see others as human and to understand how your actions affect them emotionally, mentally, and physically. True empathy acts as a moral compass. It’s what allows someone to distinguish right from wrong not…
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The Soulmate Myth No One Talks About
I recently wrote about how many women who have elevated themselves, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and even professionally, often find it difficult to meet men at the same level. Not because there’s something “wrong” with them, but because growth changes what feels aligned. When you outgrow certain dynamics, you also outgrow certain connections. After coming across…
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When You Stop Proving, Authority Changes Shape
The moment you stop trying to prove your value, something important happens. The wrong audience falls away. The right audience feels safer. Your authority becomes quieter, but stronger. This is not a loss. It’s refinement. I am not a motivational speaker. I am a translator of human behavior. That role doesn’t require aesthetics, performance, or…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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Why the First Deep Love Never Really Leaves a Man.
A post online claims that men fall in love only once and that every relationship afterward is a substitute for that original bond. When I saw this on my Instagram feed, curiosity led me into the comments. Some women said they didn’t care, as long as a man provides. Others admitted they’ve never truly been…
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Why is sexual discipline often difficult for men?
Why is sexual discipline often difficult for men? There are several psychological and emotional factors that can contribute. For some, early childhood experiences of abandonment, such as being left or neglected by a mother, can create deep-seated feelings of insecurity. As a result, sex may become a way to assert dominance or regain a sense…
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MY DREAM LAST NIGHT GAVE ME A MESSAGE I DIDN’T KNOW I NEEDED.
I want to share this because some of you might be going through the same type of spiritual transition. Last night, I had a strange dream. I dreamt I had a body to bury. I didn’t know who it was. I had a coffin, drove to a cemetery, found an open grave, and dropped it…
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Part one. Why Spiritually Open Men Attract Chaotic Women: Understanding Energetic Porosity.

Some men are spiritually gifted without ever realizing it. They feel deeply, absorb energy easily, and carry a natural sensitivity that most people don’t possess. But here’s the hidden truth: When a man is spiritually open but not energetically protected, he becomes a magnet for the wounded, the chaotic, and the unhealed. He’s simply open…