Tag: spirituality
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The Sexually Disciplined Man: Why Intimacy Is Responsibility, Not Gratification
In a world that treats sex as casual, transactional, or purely pleasurable, a sexually disciplined man is rare. And yet, his presence is transformative. After 14 years of celibacy, I’ve realized something profound: intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s energetic, emotional, and deeply shaping. It can open gifts, shift awareness, and alter the very rhythm of…
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The Soulmate Myth No One Talks About
I recently wrote about how many women who have elevated themselves, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and even professionally, often find it difficult to meet men at the same level. Not because there’s something “wrong” with them, but because growth changes what feels aligned. When you outgrow certain dynamics, you also outgrow certain connections. After coming across…
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Women Who Choose Happiness Don’t Settle for Pain
I wrote this in response to a post by a woman I admire and relate to. I remembered her wedding and commended her for being open to marrying again, appreciating her readiness to welcome love while staying true to herself and not sacrificing her well-being. Women who are truly happy do not excuse pain. They…
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Why the First Deep Love Never Really Leaves a Man.
A post online claims that men fall in love only once and that every relationship afterward is a substitute for that original bond. When I saw this on my Instagram feed, curiosity led me into the comments. Some women said they didn’t care, as long as a man provides. Others admitted they’ve never truly been…
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It’s Okay to Receive: Why Sharing Your Gifts Isn’t the Same as Giving Them Away
For years, many of us sit on our talents. We create, we heal, we guide, and we pour energy into helping others, often for free. Sometimes we feel guilty even thinking about asking for compensation. “I don’t want to seem greedy,” we say. Or, “People might not understand the value of what I do.” If…
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Part one. Why Spiritually Open Men Attract Chaotic Women: Understanding Energetic Porosity.

Some men are spiritually gifted without ever realizing it. They feel deeply, absorb energy easily, and carry a natural sensitivity that most people don’t possess. But here’s the hidden truth: When a man is spiritually open but not energetically protected, he becomes a magnet for the wounded, the chaotic, and the unhealed. He’s simply open…
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Why Self-Actualized Women Struggle to Find Compatible Men
Today’s blog post dives into the concept of self-actualization, inspired by a post I came across about the highest level on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs where a woman stands firmly at the top of her own pyramid. When she’s centered financially, emotionally, and spiritually, her outlook transforms, and so do the kinds of men she…
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The Sacred Shift Podcast
The Sacred Shift Podcast is a soulful storytelling experience where deep intuitive insight meets grounded psychological wisdom. Rooted in psychology, astrology, and divination, each episode offers meaningful, perceptive conversations that guide you through life’s turning points. .https://open.spotify.com/episode/5gMhFHx0AxePyDC7Zk38DF?si=j3OsrakQRmuBXa4z47lC4w
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From Trials to Transformation: My Rite of Passage

This past period of my life wasn’t just about hormonal shifts. It was deeper, it was a rite of passage. It showed up in so many ways: cravings that never seemed to end, needing more food, more sleep, more care. It showed up in losses financial, emotional, personal. It showed up in vivid dreams, in…
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What is sympathy and what is empathy?
I’ve seen quotes circulating that Charlie Kirk said sympathy is a better word to use than empathy. If that’s true, it’s important to note they aren’t the same thing. I think a lot of folks don’t understand the difference between Sympathy and empathy. And, why one is more powerful than the other. To me, sympathy…